It’s not “IF” they celebrate birthdays in heaven-
the question is this:
HOW do they celebrate birthdays in heaven?
I’ll tell you how:
I’m 1000 % sure it’s with great Gusto and Joy tied up with ribbons of Perfect Love!
I know the heavenlies celebrate better than we do because God created and instituted Holy Days, Commemorations, Celebrations, Feasting, and Festivals!
Angels sang and danced when God spoke the worlds into existence so how could they not rejoice and marvel at His crowning creation- humankind?
Think of it- no time restraints or pressing commitments, no tired bodies or feeble minds- only JOY- JOY- JOY! For in the presence of God is pure, unadulterated celebration of LIFE- and He is the author of LIFE!
One of my favorite scriptures is found in Zephaniah 3:17 “For the LORD your God is living among you. He is a mighty savior. He will take delight in you with gladness. With his love, he will calm all your fears. He will rejoice over you with joyful songs.” That word “rejoice” in the Hebrew means to spin about wildly with joy! Can you get a picture of that in your heart?
Jesus rejoices over us – He’s wild about us! He sings to us and I’ll bet it’s better than “Happy Birthday to You”!
When we celebrated Bethany’s birthday the other day, it was also in my heart that we should be celebrating our daughter, Kristin’s birthday. (Kristin shares the same birthday as Bethany only 17 years earlier 🙂 )
For me to truly enjoy Bethany and her birthday, I choose to wait a day or two after her birthday, to take a day or two to contemplate Kristin Faith’s birthday: I remember the sweet, chubby arms that held me tight, the cute auburn ponytail she always sported, the giggles and wiggles, always dancing with her big sister Sarah, and the pure love and sunshine she gave our family.
Kristin went to live with Jesus just two weeks after her second birthday. I can hardly believe that she has celebrated 27 birthdays in heaven.
I’ve learned over the years to not look backwards or dwell on the past memories more than a few days a year.
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What I’ve learned to do is actively and intentionally- LOOK FORWARD to the celebrations we’ll enjoy when we’re together again.
I wanted to share a little letter written from Kristin’s perspective- maybe it will help you if you’re missing someone you love. I don’t know if children grow up in heaven or not, but I have a hard time thinking of Kristin as being 27- so if you’ll humor me, my letter is written from a child’s point of view.
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Dear Mommy and Daddy,
My angel told me it was my earthly birthday so it was time to plan another party up here too. Grandma Joyce, Grandma Marilyn and Grandma Kathleen help-ed me write out ‘vitations and everybody was so ‘cited to come.
Jesus got here first! He satted me on His lap and told me all about how He thought me up in His heart! He ‘xplained it like dis- “Kristin- I thought you up- then I shouted your name with lots and lots of pure, joyful love- “Kristin Faith” and that’s how you got started growing in your mommy’s tummy.”
He planned every detail Mommy! Jesus kept smiling and said, “Kristin Faith, I love you more than you could ever know and I’m going to spend all eternity showing you!”
Then He hug-ged me and told me how you’re all doing back on earth! He raised His hand up and up swirled open a small window in heaven so I could look down and see you all.
Mommy- seeing my whole family loving Jesus and following Him, makes me so happy- and it makes Jesus happy, too! I pray for you all the time! I so ‘cited when I think about getting to do birthdays together again.
Cause Mommy, they’re really awesome in heaven.
First, Jesus took me by the hand and started the Big Dancing Parade. We danced and skipped, laughed and shouted, up & down the streets of gold with everybody following! It was so much fun!
Next, we raced to the River of Life and dove right in and swam. Finally, we got out & sitted under the trees by the River and ate the yummiest fruit you’ve ever tasted! Oh, and Daddy- you’d love this- we raced up a really tall mountain! At the top we had snowball fights, and then we slid down a rainbow to get back to the ground! And all the time there was music playing- the angels are better than any band you’ve ever heard on earth!
My angel is teaching me to play the piano mommy, so when you get up here we can play together! Won’t that be fun? I wish I could tell my little sister, Bethany, and my cousin, Jason that I think it’s awesome we share the same birthday.
And it’s not even sad when everybody starts going back to their homes cause Grandma Joyce and Jesus tuck-ed me in bed and said, “Time to rest and get refreshed – In Gods care you are blessed.”
Before He left, Jesus promised me He is working weally hard on everything! Then He says He’s gonna come and get you so we can be together again. It’s gonna be the biggest party yet! I so excited! Finally, Grandma started brushing my hair and she tolded me stories about you and daddy.
I just want you to know, I’m so happy mommy. It’s beeaauuuuutiful in heaven! I don’t want you be sad or miss me too much. We’ll all be together soon and celebrate lots! God is good at that. He’s always doing the awesomest things! But the big party starts when everybody finally gets here! So keep your eyes on Jesus mommy, cause He has His eye on you!
Love you and I’m your daughter forever and ever,
Kristin Faith
Nothing can separate us from God’s love!
Death can’t- Life can’t!
The angels can’t- demons can’t
Our fears for today or our worries for tomorrow-
NOTHING CAN KEEP US FROM THE LOVE OF GOD IN CHRIST JESUS!
Cindy! <3 Thia was so special. Thank you for sharing this with all of us.
Thank you Amy! Jesus is so wonderful! One day-it will all be JOY! love you and miss you Amy
Gosh Cindy…Such insight!! I had to break open a new box of tissue.
Thanks for inviting me to one of the most beautiful parties I have ever attended.
Wish I could hug you right now Charlene- We are so blessed to have those celebrations PROMISED to us! I know you can’t wait- neither can I! hugs my sweet friend!
You have impacted my life, yet again. Love to you, Pam
Awww Pamm- it’s Jesus and His presence- isn’t it? When I think of His goodness and what He’s done for me- when I think of His goodness and how He’s set me free- I could have danced- danced- danced- all night! Love you! love you too!
You’ve left me almost speechless and in tears! Might just be the most beautiful heart message I’ve ever read. Thanks, once again for blessing me beyond compare!
Isn’t our Savior wonderful?! To plan and secure such an amazing future with Him in eternity?!!!! love you Rita!
My eyes are overflowing, too. You’ve painted such a touching picture of your little girl, Cindy. I’m reminded of another family, as well, that laid their little Charity in the arms of Jesus when she was four years old. Then and now, it tears my own heart to shreds imagining the awful grief of having to let go of such treasures. How do people cope at all without Jesus? Thank you for that verse from Zephaniah: “…With his love, he will calm all your fears….” Thanks be to God!
With His love!!!! It’s the only way to live. My heart breaks for people who don’t know His love and goodness- May His Kingdom come on earth and fill it with His glory and grace! hugs
To be totally frank… Clan Barclay Clan doesn’t have much in the way of worldly investments, rich by third-world standards, but wealthy beyond measure in heavenly treasure! I miss you Kristin! So much! You are a big part of that treasure. I remember the moment the above picture was taken. We were on vacation at the trailer on Boal Shoals Lake in Arkansas with your Grandpa and Grandma Barclay. You and Sarah had been “fishing” at the dock in Grandpa’s boat. Your Grandpa Barclay (my daddy) said to me when you left for heaven, “Kristin was the first person that has died during my life that I have really loved.” His eyes were full of tears when you went to heaven. So were mine. My eyes will be filled with tears again the next time we meet. Just like they are now… I love you and miss you so much sweetheart! Until then… Your daddy on earth.
forever together- united by His love!
“I Can Only Imagine!!!”
I love that song!!!! Our imagination isn’t big enough!!!
Cindy, Something tells me God put you here on earth as a teacher of his love. Your words were so stirring. When I first starting reading the message I thought that’s not right, Little Kristin cannot be celebrating her 27th birthday. Wow! Doesn’t it seems so strange that Bethany, Jason and Kristen all have the same birthday? You’r a super, duper niece with powerful messages and thoughts. Love you and all the rest of your family.
Thank you Aunt Mary- your words of encouragement mean so much to me! God has helped me so much- I truly couldn’t COPE with life without His love holding me. One day- we’re all gonna be at a party and celebrate like never before! hugs
The tears started when I read that you lost your two year old, and then they just kept coming. What a beautiful letter.
Thank you so much Barbara- the Lord has been so gracious to heal my broken heart- so broken I didn’t know if I would be whole again- so amazed I can be rejoicing that she is in heaven! hugs
What a joyous party we can all have when we meet again. You are so creative in your writings.
Thanks Kris! We certainly will won’t we?? (you’ve been entered into the drawing 🙂 ) hugs
28 and counting. We love you Kristin. What a day that will be! When you and Jesus we see.